The Limestone Lacrosse Family -
posted by: Josh

Limestone senior lacrosse captain Marissa Pesce is grateful for her student-athlete experience - and every teammate she has had during the past four years. Now, just hours before the all-American takes the field in the national semifinals, she tells each of her teammates why they are integral to the program.

Right now I can't function. I can't concentrate. I can't sleep and I can't eat. Okay maybe I can still eat but not as comfortably as I'd like to. The butterflies in my stomach have a tendency to swish together what I had for lunch and I don't like it one bit. I'm currently in the worst waiting zone that will ever exist in my quarter-life years. As much as we don't like to dwell on the past, there is a familiarity that touches us in a sentimental way. Nostalgia isn't always a bad thing. To know where we're going, we have to know where we've been.

It feels like just yesterday that we pulled up to Limestone, shaking in our cleats and wondering where the next four years would take us. We came from all over - New York, Virginia, Maryland, South Carolina, and even recruited outside our own country; all with one goal in mind: to win a national championship. It's impossible not to admire the compelling story of a national champion. Now, that time is finally here for us to declare our victory, I have to sit back and wonder. Where did all the time go?

I was reading through my brain earlier today, which of course took me for a merry little stroll down memory lacrosse lane. We have imbedded our footprints on the field. Our scoreboard has never seen another team as a threat. The goal harks along with us as we chant our poem with the common notion that we all yearn for a happy ending. Countless sleepovers and late nights that turned into early mornings...(sorry about that one coach!). And most importantly the friendships that will continue on forever. So before we take the field for the most important game(s) of our career, I say congratulations to you, Lady Saints. You deserve it.

There is no way you can explain the significance of a lacrosse match to someone, but when you are in the midst of morning practices and games, there is a ritualistic bonding that happens surrounded by the things you learn, the mysteries you solve, the confessions you witness, and the grating teeth of being together 24-7. It's a celebration of the simple pleasures of life; friendships, athletics and good discussion, all in the environment on a lacrosse field. Our coaches are our very own directors and screenwriters in most of our games. They undercut their own existential concern either with absurd humor that provides a comic relief, or a harsh attitude of sprinting until the sun comes up. Although it contains a usual blend of comedy and seriousness, the game is played.

Like a puzzle, each individual player brings a sense of unity to the team. "Attacks got your back" is the motto that our attack players cheer. Kelly Lickert comes to the field ready to dance around her opponents. With her lean back shot and quick feet, her defenders are left under the disco in a Saturday night fever. Melissa Howard shoots with a drum roll that permits her stick to be the lead singer on its own stage. She lets her stick do all the talking. Our goalie Erin Cavanaugh however, allows her mouth to do all the talking. Just like our moms used to say, they have eyes behind their head... so does Erin. She see's everything on the field and makes sure that what she screams echoes and sticks hard to us like superglue.

The draw circle is Summer Ferraro's own steel trap. Near or far, her stick has a magnetic charge that any air ball cannot deny. Lauren Askerberg has the perfect psyche of knowing what else cannot be denied, and that is the recipe of a good laugh. She pitches a notable sense of comedy in situations needed when we need that encore of support. Terri Anne George is the "state of the art" marine, who goes to war with the groundballs on that grassy field. After escalating the battle, Lauryn Wise steps up to the plate as our pacer. As much as her skills are dominating, your eyes initially slow it down like in you're in the middle of a "re-united scene" in a movie to capture the perfection "in the moment" on an eight meter shot.

Shea Farrell is one of the coolest players to watch. She plays very different than the average lacrosse player. In an instant .02 seconds, the ball has already left her stick and is sinking in the back of the net and only with little movement. Katie Illiot strives on always giving 110%, even if she has to get her head covered and wrapped like a mummy. She is rewarded for her means to prevail and no means of quitting. Erin Growney, as a freshman came in fully prepared to help us to a successful season and has carried us in keeping a deadlock on our draw circle. For me, wearing the Limestone jersey is a gift. A gift I love to flaunt and sport, in highlight to the girls who wear it alongside me.

When I was an underclassman I remember being really sad when the seniors left. It was difficult to start the new season without them but as the season progresses things always sway together naturally. One thing I want to leave the team with is a smiling face telling you this: I enjoyed being able to watch girls grow into amazing players, and learn so many new things, whether it be on the field or off. One thing I take with me is new dance moves and funny accents. I'm sure the seniors agree with me when I express my deep satisfaction with our season. I'm ready to play a national championship game, and brag about my team for decades after it.

Comments

Marissa,
This is your Director of Communications: This is an exceptional blog. I'm already thinking of ways to use it in other Limestone publications. I'll start with the official Limestone blog. Maybe even the Alumni magazine.
Please, keep writing. You're very talented.

posted by: Josh Crotzer | 05/15/08

Marissa,
We couldn't agree more with what your Communications Director (above)stated and also think this truly represents the 'student-athlete experience'. Thank you so much for sharing and we too will use this as an example of what so many of our athletes are striving for!
-Conference Carolinas Staff-

posted by: Brook Patterson | 05/15/08

Marissa,

Excellent blog! As an alumni(00') of the first Lady Saints Lacrosse Team I have to tell you, and I know I speak for all of us, that we are very proud of each and everyone of you. You are living the experience we only dreamed of. Please know that you are never alone on the field,when you need that extra motivation know that we are right there with you. Congratulations on a wonderful season and you are already National Champions in our book!!

posted by: Eliza 'Mac' Cody | 05/15/08

Marissa,
You just made tears come to my eye! I love you girls and I'll be watching you kick butt today! Bring home the 'ship to the south! Lime what!!

posted by: Shannon Nolan | 05/15/08

Riss-
Good luck today!! To all of you.. Im sitting here in my office waiting for the game to start! Wishing I was there.. playing next to all of you!! This blog is amazing! You are going to be great today!

posted by: Kristen Black | 05/15/08

I graduated from Limestone in 2003 and remember vividly the trials and tribulations of both lacrosse programs as they practiced and played games. As an alumni of Limestone College, I couldn't be more proud to read a column like this. Go Saints!

posted by: Brian Russell | 05/15/08

Marissa,
Please remind Katie that I'm sorry for checking her in the head so that she had to have her head wrapped like a mummy. But anyway, congrats on a terrific season! I have a ton of respect for you and all the Limestone girls. Hope to see you soon!

posted by: Theresa Nolan | 05/15/08

Marissa,

What a wonderful column that let's us see the experience of the game through your eyes. You and your team have had a wonderful season and the comments above vividly prove that you are already champions. As my own girls end their high school lacrosse experience and cross over into the college sector, your words and a look into your own experiences make me even more proud that they also will be Lady Saints. You represent Limestone and The Lady Saints Lacrosse Team proudly. Best of luck to you! Go Saints!!!!

posted by: Paula Smith | 05/15/08

Marissa,

Just returned to Gaffney from our Semi-game against NYIT and wish that I had seen this sooner to use as an example of what it means to be a great teammate! Your hard work, dedication, and obvious passion for Limestone is very much appreciated and will serve as a model for current and future student-athletes for years to come! Congratulations on a great season and best of luck in your future endeavors.


Regards,

Coach DaRin

posted by: Jeremy DaRin | 05/18/08

Marissa,

For 4+ years I've had to listen to your Mom tell us how special you are. I've had a chance to watch you play and that experience leaves no doubt as to you athleticism but this letter is a testament to your leadership. The season has ended and unfortunately not the way you would have liked but you will always have the memories and friendhip of your teamates and they last a life time. Congatulations on a great career and good luck in the future.

Peter R. Daly, Ed.D
Assistant Superintendent
Babylon UFSD

posted by: Peter R. Daly | 05/19/08

Marissa,
You are very talented in so many ways. I was really moved by your experience and as yearbook advisor I hope that it will be ok to use this in the 2007-2008 book. I know your future is going to be a successful one no matter what you pursue!

God Speed,
Jonna Turner
Calciid Advisor,
Academic Information Director

posted by: Jonna Turner | 05/19/08

Hi Marissa-

It's Jen, Franzen's girlfriend. I just wanted to tell you that I read your blog when I was on the Limestone website and I thought it was really great. You are an amazing writer. I was really moved by what you said, and I only wish that I was able to write how I feel about my teammates and my college experience with that amount of eloquence. Next fall, I'm sure I am going to have those same feelings when I am done with field hockey.

Anyways, I just wanted to tell you how awesome it was. Congrats on a GREAT season!

~ Jen

posted by: Jen Angers | 05/22/08

I'm so proud of you Rissa... you make so many people proud you have no idea... I miss you girls tons.

posted by: Andrea Poor | 06/10/08

Rissa Pissa
You are a role model to me and although you may be my neice, who should be younger than me(which would make more sense)- here i am looking up to you. Your dad told me last night to go check this out, so i finally found this story and i am glad to call you a part of my family. I love you, and i hope that i can be as sucessful as you are/were in lacrosse. With your personality, you can get anywhere in life. Oh yeah, and looks of course ;)

posted by: Alexis Jahrmarkt | 06/30/08

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